Well, I wouldn’t say that I “liked” it, as in I’m going to read it again and again. But I will say that I learned from it (surprise, surprise…), and am grateful that I read it.
I can appreciate Flaubert’s realism. I think we take that for granted in the books we read today. But, if you read Uncle Tom’s Cabin, you can see the stark contrast between the two styles.
There were some descriptions in Stowe’s book that had me rolling my eyes, and made me wonder if she actually wanted me to believe what she was saying. But, you have to take it in context. That was the style then, really flowery and heaps of praise.
And then you read Madame Bovary, as you see why people consider it a seminal work in Realism.
Sure, some of it still made me roll my eyes, but Flaubert was much more true to how things were for people in Doctor Bovary’s station. And just to make sure we realized that, Flaubert contrasted his book with the books Emma Bovary would read—fluffy romantic novels.
What surprised me the most with this book was in how much I identified with Madame Bovary, herself.
(No, I’m not a married woman having affairs.) It’s not her actions I relate to, but the feelings behind her actions.
Emma was unhappy with her life, and she fell for the cosmic “The grass is always greener…”I’ve felt the same way. In fact, up until about June of last year, I lived that way: unhappy, dissatisfied, disappointed, and miserable. Nothing was good enough. Nothing was exciting enough. And I felt trapped.
Me, and Emma.
Now, I went inside to change my life. I used my power to alter my perspective. My life didn’t really change, but I did.
Emma went outside to change her life. She turned to other people (men) to create excitement, to make her feel valued. Her life changed, but she didn’t.
And if YOU don’t change, then you’re just the same person in a different environment, and sooner or later that environment won’t matter, and you’ll be back at square one: unhappy.
I think Flaubert agrees with me. “Emma found again in adultery all the platitudes of marriage.”
Now, in Emma’s case, she made things worse for herself because she broke promises. I find that for most people, when they do something they know to be wrong, eventually it catches up to them and they feel worse about themselves.
Emma thought that breaking her marriage vow and having trysts with other men would make her feel loved. But, it only made her feel used. “Everything, even herself, was now unbearable.”
At the end of the book, I felt sorry for Emma because she only wanted love and meaning in her life, and didn’t realize that SHE was the one that had to open her heart to those who were already there (her husband and daughter), and to the life she was already living.
Madame Bovary confirmed everything I have been thinking about these last 9 months as I’ve been changing my mind, and thereby, changing my life.
And by reading about Emma’s life, I’ve gained greater appreciation for my own.
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Oh, and did you notice the blurry picture (stupid camera) at the top of this post?
It’s a new feature I’m adding to my monthly book review: an original ATC (Artist Trading Card) inspired by the novel!
And it will be sent to you, along with an explanation of its design, free of charge! You only have to be the first person to post a comment saying you want it!
This way I’m combining three of my favorite things: reading, art, and friends!
Yay for me!
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Crime and Punishment is our book for April.
Yippy!
Another uplifting tale!!
Happy reading!
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Crime and Punishment is our book for April.
Yippy!
Another uplifting tale!!
Happy reading!